关于自体和他人的感受,对于孩子的发展来说必不可少。孩子既需要内在的能力、机会和整合力,又需要有一个平行的、互补的、必须同核心他人一起发生的过程。这包括主动地觉察到自体和他人在一起的有组织的经验,否则会产生深深的无意识的羞耻感。心理治疗师必须面对这一点,必须作出回应,同时提供存在性的言语和非言语共鸣。这在治疗关系中有助于建立核心自体,并且在身体层面扎根。
The sense of Self and Other is essential for the child`s development. The child needs the internal capacity, opportunity and the integrative ability and the existence of a parallel, complementary process that must occur with the Core Other. This includes an active awareness of an organized experience of Self with Other. If this experience does not succeed, the child develops a deep unconscious shame that grips the entire person. Psychotherapist has to face this and to also respond. He should offer an existencial verbal and nonverbal resonance at the same time. This helps to establish and to bodily ground the Core Self as Daniel Stern named it in the therapy relationship.
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