目的：探索代际关系、抚育模式与夫妻婚姻满意度之间的关系。
方法：对全国10个城市共64名已婚者进行深入访谈,绘制家谱图,运用主题法对访谈内容进行分析,并进行理论建构。
结果：典型的中国家庭共包括五种代际抚育模式：独立抚育式、单方参与式、单方协助式、双方参与式和双方协助式;不同婚姻满意度家庭的代际抚育模式家谱图存在差异,高婚姻满意度的家庭往往形成了核心家庭,而低婚姻满意度低家庭中代际关系相对混乱,但也有特例存在;另外,中国家庭的“边界与平衡”、原生家庭的“遗传现象”等也值得关注。
结论：代际抚育模式影响家庭的婚姻满意度。典型家谱图可作为心理治疗的辅助工具,从宏观角度为咨询师提供参考。
Objective: To explore the relationship between intergenerational relationships, parenting model, and couples' marriage satisfaction.
Methods: In-depth interviews were conducted with 64 married individuals across 10 cities in China. Genograms were drawn, the interviews were analyzed using the thematic approach, and theoretical constructs were developed.
Results: A typical Chinese family consists of five types of intergenerational parenting models: independent parenting, single-party participation, single-party assistance, two-party participation, and two-party assistance. Differences in the genograms of families different levels of marrital satisfaction were observed. Families with high marital satisfaction tend to for nuclear families, while those with low marital satisfaction exhibit relatively disorganized intergenerational relationships, though exceptions exist. Furthermore, the ‘boundaries and balance’ and the ‘genetic phenomenon’in families of origin are also noteworthy in Chinese families.
Conclusion: Intergenerational parenting model influences marrital satisfaction. Typical genogram can be used as an adjunct to psychotherapy, providing counselors with a macro perspective.
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